Monday, 2 February 2026

Reach out I'll be there - Four Tops


2026 is already shaping up to be a pivotal time in a lot of the lives of the I’m working with – people that have simply REACHED OUT. People that have been STRONG enough to acknowledge that some guidance and different thinking might be all they need to get things straight in their lives once more.

I say STRONG because REACHING OUT is all too often thought of as being WEAK or FAILURE. I know only too well myself as I felt totally defeated and ay my lowest ebb when I REACHED OUT for help myself all those years’ ago. The funny thing was that as soon as I shared my predicament – my world took a turn for the better and it felt like the light started to shine on me once again.
 
In general Men want help becoming STRONGER and FASTER whereas Women want to be VALUED and HEARD – a very PHYSICAL:EMOTIONAL equation. Maybe it’s down to a confidence issue in both sexes. Men need the uplift in times and performance to give them the edge to take on the world and Women need their confidence reinstated after years of Male suppression. Every Woman I coach is STRONG, CLEVER and AWESOME – it’s just a shame they find it hard to ACCEPT, ACKNOWLEDGE and ANNOUNCE and when they do, I find it most refreshing (YOU know who you are).
 
I also find it refreshing when Men REACH OUT publicly and announce that they are in fact MORTAL and are finding life tough (YOU know who you are) as it’s cool – VERY COOL in fact as PEOPLE LOVE to help other PEOPLE. You might find that LOVE comes from the PEOPLE you might least expect and not from those nearest to you. 
 
But then, LIFE is FULL of SURPRISES and you might SURPRISE yourself and those around you if you feel lost and about to give up because your best just ain't good enough.
 
And your feel the world has grown cold and you're drifting out all on your own…
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